Play is a child’s most favorite word, and it’s what makes up their world. But, play is more than just fun, it’s a huge part of a child’s development. We all know that it is important for our children to play. However, as parents, we don’t usually think of play when we think of our children learning. But why? Play is how our children learn. It has a purpose and it’s how they learn to process the world around them.
Incorporating imaginative play into our child’s day opens the door to a whole world of learning. Giving open ended materials and letting your child explore the materials inspires them to pretend, create, and imagine. Pretend play in the kitchen, digging in the dirt, and building towers with their favorite blocks are just a few of the ways our kids learn! Unstructured, imaginative play teaches our little ones (especially preschoolers) about cause and effect, social expectations, and builds a foundation for social interaction.
As a parent and teacher, I know we put stress on ourselves to make sure that our kids are constantly learning. But, unstructured play is learning! Not every play-based activity needs to be structured. Children do not need to be directed on how to play with every item we give them to play with. As adults, we can provide the materials, but we do not need to direct the movements during the play activity. That is the best part about it! It’s child-led and simply meant to be FUN!
Even though play is unstructured, we can still have a goal in mind that we hope our children will learn through the materials we are providing to them. First, we have to decide what skill we are hoping our children will learn through the play-based activity. Are we hoping for social skills, academic concepts, or independence? Sensory bins are amazing for engaging those teeny tiny fine motor skills, while also creating a scenario for imaginitive play. Giving a child a bin of water with measuring cups with no direction can become a kitchen to them. They are “baking”, which is testing their planning and critical thinking skills. When we allow our littles to be in charge of their learning we are giving them the chance to engage all of their senses.
Once you know the skills you are looking to help your children learn, then we have to think about our child’s interests. Do they love to have tea parties, play with tractors, or be a superhero? When we set our children up with materials they are interested in, this will set them up for success from the beginning! Here are a few ideas to get you started:
Using play encourages communication skills, motor development, social-emotional development, and the enhancement of a child’s imagination. You can provide the materials and let your child set the stage of what they want to create with their own imagination. I love watching my kids build an ice cream shop from dirt and buckets when we are playing out in the backyard. I see them working on social skills by taking turns and making decisions with one another. Unstructured play gives young kids a chance to develop freedom and control of their decisions, and it helps them to explore likes and dislikes about themselves. As parents, we also play a crucial role by asking questions that provoke a child’s learning. Asking “Why?” encourages our little ones to have conversations about their play. Children need to have opportunities to explore, create and discover without specific expectations. The benefits are endless! If you begin playing with purpose, I bet you will be surprised with some of the things your kiddos can come up with. They may be little but they have big imaginations!
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